Store

Polyamory: A Clinical Toolkit for Therapists (and Their Clients)

In this groundbreaking guide to consensual non-monogamy, Martha Kauppi equips you with the skills to be a true ally to clients who want to explore polyamory. Learn from the expert who trains experts as she debunks myths and shares the exact tools she uses with her own clients.

Relationship Skills Handout Set 

This 92-page PDF contains all of the exercises and worksheets from Martha's book, Polyamory: A Clinical Toolkit for Therapists (and Their Clients) in a convenient format so you can download, print, and share them with your clients.

Making Change Happen: Boosting Differentiation in Real Time

June 25-29, 2025

Join Martha in Madison for a clinical power-up getaway––An all-inclusive training retreat designed to nurture you, expand your community, and empower you to make real change for your clients.

LEVEL ONE

Assessing and Treating Sex Issues in Psychotherapy (ATSIP)

This robust 15-week course will set you up to be able to handle a tremendous range of sex issues in therapy with confidence and competence.

LEVEL TWO - LIVE

Assessing and Treating Sex Issues in Psychotherapy (ATSIP)

Join a consulting group to implement the skills you learned in Level One and receive ongoing support in your practice of being a sex-competent therapist.

Completion of ATSIP Level 1 required.

LEVEL TWO - RECORDINGS

Assessing and Treating Sex Issues in Psychotherapy (ATSIP)

Get insider access to a deep and ever-growing library of recordings of Martha’s real-life case consultations.

Completion of ATSIP Level One required.

Consensual
Non-Monogamy Level 1

This 15 CE pre-recorded course is designed to help you work effectively with the kinds of challenges that often arise when working with consensual non-monogamy.

Consensual
Non-Monogamy Level 2

Join a consulting group to gain support as you grow your skills working with consensual non-monogamy in therapy and receive individualized attention in a small group setting. Completion of CNM Level One is required.

Developmental Model Consulting Group

The Developmental Model consulting group is for therapists who are actively building proficiency in the Developmental Model of couples therapy and also have experience working with sex issues. It’s designed to give you support and feedback with all your sex-related cases, while deepening your application of Developmental Model interventions and concepts.

Therapeutic Strategies for Loss of Attraction

In this 4.5 CE pre-recorded min-course, AASECT-certified sex therapist Martha Kauppi gives you her effective roadmap for reawakening attraction, and she outlines the skills needed for working with the tough dynamics that accompany loss of attraction. 

Romance to Roommates: Rekindling the Spark

In this 2 CE pre-recorded webinar, AASECT-certified sex therapist Martha Kauppi dives deep into sex in midlife and gives you approaches for rekindling the spark in long-term relationships gone flat. Plus, she offers a 5-chapter ebook exploring essential strategies for helping stressed-out clients find joy and juiciness when unrepaired disillusionments, resentments, and stressors have damaged their connection.

"Not Tonight, Dear"

PART ONE: Helping Clients Transform Differences in Sexual Desire

 In this 90-minute webinar, originally produced by the Couples Institute, AASECT-certified sex therapist Martha Kauppi will share powerful strategies for working with entrenched desire discrepancies—even when the couples facing them feel hopeless.

"Not Tonight, Dear"

PART TWO: Advanced Clinical Training On Desire Differences

In this 90-minute webinar, originally produced by the Couples Institute, AASECT-certified sex therapist Martha Kauppi shares specific skills for working with tough desire differences by giving you an in-depth look at a real-life case, so you can see exactly how she discusses this with clients.

Webinar Bundle - Buy two and save

"Not Tonight, Dear" Part 1 and "Not Tonight, Dear" Part 2

In this series of two 90-minute webinars, originally produced by the Couples Institute, AASECT-certified sex therapist Martha Kauppi will share both of her detailed trainings on desire differences. Learn her powerful strategies for shifting entrenched desire discrepancies, and take an in-depth look at how Martha works with clients in a real-life case.

Working with Sexual Shame: Therapeutic Strategies and Interventions

In this 60-minute webinar, AASECT-certified sex therapist Martha Kauppi explores the deep roots of sexual shame and how a therapist can create a reparative experience for their clients.

Pathways to Intimacy After Trauma: 7 Steps For Helping Clients Heal

In this 60-minute webinar, AASECT-certified sex therapist Martha Kauppi covers strategies for helping clients build intimacy despite the impact of past trauma.

Webinar Bundle - Buy two and save

Working With Sexual Shame and Pathways to Intimacy After Trauma

In this series of two 60-minute webinars, AASECT-certified sex therapist Martha Kauppi shares her strategies for working with sexual shame rooted in sex-negative religious messages, negative body image, messages about sexual preferences, and anxieties around sexual performance and function. She covers strategies for helping clients build intimacy despite the impact of past of trauma to help you move forward with treatment in concrete and appropriate ways.

Let's Talk Sex: Treating Low Desire In and Out of Bed

In this 90-minute webinar, originally produced in partnership with the Couples Institute, Martha Kauppi talks about desire: how to determine if it's really the issue, understanding what it is, and what gets in the way. She shares assessment and treatment strategies as well as how to talk with clients about different kinds of desire, desire dampeners, and desire throughout the lifespan.

Great Sex for Life: 

In this 90-minute webinar originally produced by the Couples Institute, AASECT-certified sex therapist Martha Kauppi introduces an improvisational sexual style which emphasizes connection between partners and a pleasurable experience.

Webinar Bundle - Buy two and save

Let's Talk Sex and Great Sex for Life

In this series of two 90-minute webinars, originally produced by the Couples Institute, AASECT-certified sex therapist Martha Kauppi will share two of her detailed trainings. Let's Talk Sex shares a brief assessment to determine if desire is really the issue; what desire is, what's normal, and how to talk about it in therapy; and treatment strategies. In Great Sex for Life, Martha introduces an improvisational sexual style to help reframe how we perceive and understand sexual interactions.

Polyamory: Therapeutic Challenges, Confrontations, and Solutions

In this 90-minute webinar, originally produced by the Couples Institute, AASECT-certified sex therapist Martha Kauppi will show you how to approach some of the most common challenges people in polyamorous relationships face as well as how to avoid common mistakes therapists make that push their polyam clients away.

Consent: Getting Beyond Yes Means Yes

In this course, AASECT-certified sex therapist Martha Kauppi will share two pre-recorded video lessons to deliver powerful strategies for working with subtle consent issues—helping build a repertoire of information, skills and tools for intervention.

"I Want You To Want Me": 4 Keys To Effective Work With Higher-Desire Partners

In this course, AASECT-certified sex therapist Martha Kauppi will share a pre-recorded video lesson describing 4 vital keys for working with distressed higher-desire partners. Plus a bonus ebook which turns the microscope on 5 different tough presentations of desire discrepancy, providing practical advice at every turn.

FREE WORKSHOP

How To Get A Strong Start Talking About Sex In Therapy

In this two-part video series, Martha gives you the skills and language to confidently and competently tackle sex issues in therapy.

FREE E-BOOK

10 Reasons Every Therapist Should Talk About Sex In Therapy And How To Get Started

Become a sex-competent therapist. Your clients want you to talk about sex.

FREE GUIDE

Handling Sexual Challenges Like A Rockstar

At some point, sex doesn't go as planned. Here's what to do.

FREE GUIDE

8 Steps To Opening Up: Starting The Conversation About Non-Monogamy

This free guide will help you get the conversation started.

FREE GUIDE

Relationship Repair: Co-Creating Trust

This free guide will help you learn strategies to repair damage caused by deception and build honesty in your relationship - a key to supporting healthy polyamory.