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One question you can’t fail to ask your clients

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I know from experience as a therapist how difficult working with desire discrepancy can be. Some of the most distressed, frustrated, angry, hurt couples I’ve worked with have been struggling with all the difficult feelings that come with mismatched desire. There is just so much to be upset about. We invent a lot of stories […]

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How to Build a Long-Term Relationship With Courage and Compassion

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This part three of a three-part series on sex and differentiation of self in relationships. If you missed the previous part, about symbiosis in the early stages of a relationship, you can check it out here. At some point in a relationship things start to change. Partners begin to notice that all is not completely […]

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3 Ways to Handle New Relationship Bliss That Support a Long-Term Healthy Relationship

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This is the second post in a three-part series about sex and differentiation of self in relationships. If you missed the first post, about the phases relationships go through, and how that development can get stuck, check it out here. Think about those exciting early days at the beginning of a relationship. All the hormones […]

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