Desire Discrepancy Lesson #1: Normalize Variation

Last week, I wrote about why desire discrepancy can be such a challenging issue for couples therapists to work with. If you missed last week’s post, you can read it here. If you think about it, it’s not all that surprising that desire discrepancies are common. People vary widely from one another in preferences, desires, […]

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Why Desire Discrepancy Is So Tough

Couple fighting

In all my work training therapists to talk about sex issues, there’s one thing I hear over and over: “I’ve tried everything I can to work with this desire discrepancy, but it’s just so complicated and tangled up that I don’t feel like I’m making any progress.” “I feel pretty comfortable talking about sex, but […]

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Facts About Anatomy that Your Clients Need (Part 2)

X-ray of chest, showing ribs and heart

Last week, I shared some useful facts about anatomy that your clients are likely to benefit from. This week, I’m back with more–this time focusing on orgasm and ejaculation for people with penises. Many people with a penis can have more than one orgasm (with ejaculation) in a day. Some can have more than one […]

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