How Sex Changes in Midlife


I’m continuing to answer questions sent in by my readers. This week, I’m tackling one that comes up quite a lot: Why does sex change so much for women in midlife, and what can they do about it? First off, it’s worth acknowledging that everyone, regardless of gender, moves through different life stages that affect […]

Read More >

Stretching Outside Your Comfort Zone


Recently, a therapist sent me a great question. I’ll paraphrase it a little: Where is the healthy line between setting boundaries sexually and stretching beyond your comfort zone to please your partner?  The key ingredient, always, is willingness. You always have the right to decide what activities you want to engage in. Most people engage […]

Read More >

Experiencing a Desire Discrepancy? Here Are Some Resources to Help

self pleasure

If you’re struggling with desire discrepancy in your relationship, I want you to know that you’re not alone. Desire discrepancy is one of the prevalent sources of conflict for partners. In part, that’s just because it’s so common; in fact it is SO common I would call it normal. Everyone is different, and everyone experiences […]

Read More >