Assessing and Treating Sex Issues In Psychotherapy (ATSIP)

30 CE Comprehensive Training*

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Most therapists aren't confident

working with sex issues.

 

But your clients need you to be.

Almost everyone has a sex issue at some point in their lives. But it’s tough to get good help: misinformation is rampant, people don’t know what they don’t know, and sex therapists are few and far between.

If your clients can’t turn to you, where can they go?

Most therapists haven’t had concerted training in working with sex issues. So, if you feel uncertain, you’re far from alone. But our work is all about the tough stuff. We deal with suicidality, trauma, addiction, and so much more. Sex issues are no different. We need to be able to talk about it – and we need firm background knowledge, a careful strategic approach, and a supportive network in order to do it well.

That’s where ATSIP comes in.

ATSIP is a flagship course designed to make you confident and comfortable working with sex issues in therapy. Hundreds of therapists have taken it and experienced a transformation in their skills and confidence.

Martha has done just an incredible job with this course; everything in it is easy to find and clearly marked. If you're working with a couple with issues of sex pain, you can go right to the section on sex pain. Or, if you're working with a low desire partner, you can go to Martha's work on low desire. Martha is an excellent teacher; she cares a lot about her students.

If you are somebody who works with couples, or even individuals, who bring you issues of sexuality, you will finish this course with so much more ability than you have now—an ability to really assess what you might want to address behaviorally. Even more than that, what you need to address developmentally.

I encourage you to take a look. Sign up. You will never, ever be sorry.

Ellyn Bader, Ph.D., founder of The Couples Institute and co-creator of the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy

The reason I did this course is that we don’t talk about these issues, not even in therapy. Sex issues are a normal part of who we are but a lot of it stays hidden. I wanted to make a difference, to be comfortable talking about sex issues so clients have a safe space and someone with some knowledge to talk to...

 Completing the course ignited the desire in me to do couples work again, to do that work in a different way. It’s lovely to feel that again, to feel confident and secure with the backdrop of knowing that I can trust the information that I have. 

Grace Kydd, ACC Registered Counsellor, New Zealand

I’m Martha Kauppi, and I’ve devoted my career to helping therapists work effectively with sex issues.
I’m the founder of the Institute for Relational Intimacy, an AASECT-certified sex therapist and supervisor, a former midwife, and a lifelong educator whose private practice specializes in the intersection of sex and relational issues. I am also a senior trainer of the Bader/Pearson Developmental Model of Couples Therapy, which incorporates concepts of attachment, differentiation, and neuroscience. 

I’ve spent my career as a therapist pursuing a deep understanding of the intersections between sexuality, physiology, and relational dynamics. I’ve created this course to serve as a fusion of the best resources and strategies I’ve found—so that you don’t have to spend years sifting through everything that’s out there.

Students at every level have seen this course make a difference in their therapy practices and even in their personal lives. You’ll be able to serve your existing clients more effectively and feel confident taking on new clients you might have referred before. Your clients will deeply appreciate your ability to identify a sex issue and address it directly.

By the way… as an LGBTQ+ therapist, I’ve been frustrated by relational and sex therapy trainings that don’t reflect the diversity of my world or my community. You’ll find that this course doesn’t treat any form of relationship as an afterthought.

Three Pillars of ATSIP

Strategic Learning Progression

Gain a systemic understanding of physiological, emotional, and relational components of sex issues, so that no matter what comes up in session, you can create an effective treatment plan.

Unlimited Consultation and Support

Get speedy feedback on your cases from me and my teaching assistant team– all highly experienced rockstar therapists or coaches.

Deep Resource Library

Resources at your fingertips to support your work with complex topics like postpartum sexuality, kink/BDSM, neurodivergence and sexuality, out-of-control sexual behavior, and so much more.

Here's how ATSIP can make a difference starting the minute you enroll: 

★ In the first 40 minutes, discover my rubric for catching and addressing the most urgent aspects of sex issues 

★ Post a case on our discussion board and discover new strategies for getting traction

★ Search up a topic that’s been puzzling you on our “Hearing from the Experts” bonus course 

There’s never been a better time to sign up.

ATSIP 2025 is fully updated, with lots of brand-new material to reflect my most up-to-date thinking and techniques.

What you get:

A powerful curriculum

9 in-depth lessons, all available immediately upon signup. All my strategies and interventions at your fingertips.

10 live meetings with me

I’ll answer your questions live, break down cases, and show you exactly how to apply the techniques we’ll be covering in the course. Replays available for all sessions.

24/7 Case Discussion Forum

Guidance for your work from our expert team. We’ve got your back!

30 CEs*

*This program meets the requirements of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) and is approved for 30 CE credits. These CE credits may
be applied toward AASECT certification and renewal of certification.

Support for your growth

We’ll help you connect with your classmates to form small study groups to practice, roleplay, and support one another. (Some of our previous students kept meeting with their study groups for years after the course!)

Carefully curated resources

My fully vetted and annotated 39-page resource list, organized by subject, to save you time and money when you need to dive deeper into a particular subject.

Need CEs? ATSIP comes with 30 CEs, approved by AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists.)* All you have to do is pass a learning assessment and fill out a course evaluation. 

Many licensing organizations accept AASECT CEs. We will provide you with a detailed syllabus that you can use to apply for CEUs with your professional organization, but we can't guarantee the outcome.

You’ll also get a certificate of completion, suitable for framing; a web badge, to show potential clients that you’re skilled in addressing sex issues; and the chance to join my Provider Locator - to put your name in front of more eyes!

PLUS: Two bonus courses when you sign up

Hearing from the Experts - Wondering about kink? Porn? Queer identity? Sex and aging? Sex and neurodivergence? The impact of racism on sexuality? 

Get your questions answered by leaders in the field in Hearing from the Experts, an exclusive mini-course just for ATSIP students. Watch more than 45 video interviews, and download the audio files and transcripts to keep forever! Plus, join live when I record this year’s brand-new sessions. 


Cases from Previous Years: We’ve gathered the accumulated wisdom of all past sessions for your benefit. Browse an extensive and searchable library of anonymized case discussions and videoconference audios from previous years. No matter what challenges you’re dealing with in your practice, you’ll find something here to help.

Consistently blown away by the wealth of knowledge and accessibility of this course. 

I am an AASECT certified therapist, yet every session of this course exposed me to new material and expanded my understanding of familiar content. Martha is such a generous educator- truly invested in cultivating my successful engagement with clients! 

K. Skye Henry Smith, MSW, LCSW, Doctor of Human Sexuality, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist

ATSIP is the best professional learning experience of my career to date. The content was expertly curated and organized, the support was informed and responsive, and the course was structured to allow participants to decide when and how they'd like to engage. Martha's warm, affirming style made the space safe for any and all questions. The team's clearly defined roles meant that if someone referenced a resource, a link to that resource showed up in the zoom chat within 30 seconds, and there was always someone at the ready to answer case consultation questions online. 

Unlike so many trainings in which participation is conflated with mastery, ATSIP actually built in learner accountability with a meaningful closing assessment. This assessment allowed me to both check and confirm my understanding of key concepts. My increased confidence and competence in discussing sex in relationship therapy has meant meaningful, observable improvement for my clients' experiences and relationships. Thank you, ATSIP!

Jess Cleves, MAT, LCSW, Murray, Utah

Course Outline

Assessing and Treating Sex Issues in Psychotherapy—Level 1

Module 1: Early treatment foundations

Module 2: Understanding sexual function and dysfunction

Module 3: Making it Stick: Relational Dynamics and Interventions

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Money-back guarantee

Nobody should pay for something they feel isn’t benefiting them. If at any time during the first 30 days of the course you feel you are not becoming more effective, knowledgeable, and comfortable talking about sex effectively with your clients, I will happily give you a full refund, no questions asked.

What People Are Saying

Martha is an excellent teacher; she cares a lot about her students, and if you are somebody who works with couples, or even individuals, who bring you issues of sexuality, you will finish this course with so much more ability than you have now, an ability to really assess what you might want to address behaviorally, and then even more than that, what you need to address developmentally.

So I encourage you to take a look, sign up, you will never, ever be sorry.

Ellyn Bader, Ph.D., Founder of The Couples Institute and Co-creator of the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy

 
 

Martha's ATSIP course has impacted my professional development by really giving me the confidence to talk directly about issues around sex and intimacy. So, I'm much quicker to initiate conversations around it, and feel more confident in hearing anything that's going to unfold after I ask that question. 

Lou Crosby, Counsellor and Psychotherapist, Peterborough, UK

The thing that makes this course special, and the thing that makes Martha special, is not only is she an expert, but she is an expert who knows how to translate her expertise to those who she is supporting. Not only does she know how to translate that expertise, she also is masterful in advocating for you to believe that you are capable of comfortably integrating the knowledge.

K. Skye Henry Smith, MSW, LCSW, Doctor of Human Sexuality, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist
 
 

I have not seen another sexuality course as good as this... I have not seen one that is as in-depth, approachable, supportive, and community-minded as Martha's course.

It's the best value out there.

Sarah Pattee, LMFT, Portland, OR

Martha's course is one of the best courses I've ever done, by far. Everything that Martha promised, she delivered, and over-delivered.

I believe everyone can use this. It can be used by anyone. Anyone, anytime.

Rovena Magidin, Clinical Counselor, Calgary, AB, Canada
 
 

Martha made herself so available for us… her very calm and matter-of-fact approach to this topic creates an openness and acceptance in the class environment I have seldom experienced with other teachers.

Alexa Elkington, MFT, Las Vegas, NV

Martha is a fantastic teacher. It was clear from the beginning how experienced she is.

Sarah Ludington, LPC, Denver CO
 
 

A no-holds-barred real life, real issues, real conversations look at intimacy struggles and how to engage couples who are entrenched in unsatisfying interactions with no way out.

Rev. Erich Moraine, Certified IFS practitioner, Milwaukee, WI

She’s the complete expert in what she does, and has a way of making complicated subjects really easy to understand.

Nancy St John, couples counselor, Ireland
 
Where do I even begin?! As a Sex Therapist who also specializes is in polyamorous relationships — being trained directly by Martha Kauppi and receiving her knowledge has been such a gift for me, and has developed my confidence considerably!  My training and education continue to evolve and expand on sex and intimacy matters that are specific, complex and require deeper examination. I’ve been a part of ATSIP Level 1 and 2 and will continue to be a part of this community for as long as possible. It’s become a community I count on when I’m feeling stuck or unsure; and knowing that I have a place to go for guidance is wonderful and comforting for my soul and mind. 
 
For those focusing on sex, intimacy and consensually non-monogamous relationships — and that are wanting to become strong and knowledgeable in their practice — I absolutely recommend all of Martha’s trainings and materials for clinicians. Oh and her book ‘Polyamory A Clinical Toolkit for Therapists’ is a MUST too! The bottom line is that for me — being a part of the Institute for Relational Intimacy has been beyond worth it and I have found it to be an invaluable support system as a Sex & Intimate Relationships Therapist. 

Fox Eros M., M.A., AMFT

Martha’s course is deeply informative, but also highly relatable for someone like myself without previous sex therapy training. I feel like I reference something that I learned in 80% of my sessions (and in my personal life, as well!)

Julie Gladnick, MA, LMFT, Denver, CO

Martha's training was well designed. Her presentation and knowledge made it easy to follow and understand, which gave me the ability to start to implement her assessment of Will Lily into my sessions straight away. As a couples therapist, I would highly recommend this course. Thanks again, Martha, for this great opportunity to learn from you. I will be back to complete level 2 for sure.

Nina Sawyer MSW, BAppSocSc (couns), Australia

This is one of the most important and relevant courses I have taken post grad. I love being in Martha's ongoing consultation group, and highly recommend her to every therapist I know.

Nicolette Sweeney Willard, M.A., LMFT

Hi, Martha, I just wanted to let you know that I had my first ‘circular model of sex’ discussion with two men. If you had told me a year ago that I would do this, I would’ve said you were nuts. Thank you!!

CG, LMFT, Licensed in MN and WI

I’m using what I learned with Martha every single time I do a workshop or a retreat…It’s truly making a difference for people.

Bri McCarroll, MSW, LICSW

Martha’s course material is excellent, and I can’t tell you how much I enjoy having access to quality information. I am asking my clients about sex more often, and am becoming more relaxed in my approach to it. I put a link to Sex Resources on my website’s homepage, and consequently, I am getting more clients who have issues pertaining to sexuality. It’s great!

Caron Smith, MSW, Victoria, Canada

Martha provides a very safe learning environment for what can be a sensitive subject. She not only explains why therapists should open the door to a dialogue about sexuality, but also provides an incredibly effective screening tool and information about what to do or ask, as many different scenarios unfold in sessions. As my knowledge base grew exponentially, I learned many ways to help my clients articulate what they want with regard to sex and how partners can express this to each other. Martha gives a tremendous amount of herself and her knowledge to the course and she is committed to each person’s learning and understanding. This is very clearly her passion.

Lauren Ostrowski, MA, LPC, NCC, DCC, CCTP, Pottstown, PA
Martha’s course has been strikingly different than most of the courses I have taken in the area of psychotherapy. What stands out for me is her presence. She is there for us, always welcoming and accepting of us as learners and at the same time, she treats us as accomplished therapists. In Martha’s videoconferences, I find that each participant is challenged to go deeper in exploring areas of difficulty in their cases for Martha provides such a supportive environment. Simultaneously, she never loses her prodding edge. She offers relevant information on how couples inadvertently block their path to sexual pleasure in such an authentic manner. It’s not that the interventions presented are all new, ie, the dual control model with the images of accelerator/brakes. Rather it’s the fresh approach Martha offers, the many examples from her own case load and cases from her students, the specifics and uniqueness of each case that allows the teaching to be internalized so thoroughly. Clients are led to believe they are not “problems” to be solved and fixed. Martha works to dissolve the myth of abnormality and points to how issues are multi-determined and contextual. I will greatly miss her, the staff and the participants when the course is over.
 

Dorothy Marks, LCSW-R

This is the most amazing course, and course material, that I have ever been exposed to! This far exceeded my 2 years of training at UCLA in Sex Therapy and Advanced Sex Therapy with an internship at NPI. I have never seen a support team for a trainer be so responsive, well-trained, and working in sync with Martha. I am deeply moved by how extensive the material is, how on top of things Martha is, and by her burning desire to have our learning experience be the best it can be. She is wildly responsive to everyone’s questions, concerns and curiosities.

Martha, you are absolutely amazing; you have given so much of yourself and your knowledge to us, while also maintaining a relaxed and nonjudgmental style of teaching. I have never had a learning experience like this before. I am blown away!

 
Joan Salat, LCSW

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